Frequently Asked Questions – Family, Friends and Caregivers

Frequently Asked Questions by Family, Friends and Caregivers

Sometimes it helps to talk with someone outside your family or friends to focus on your own feelings. Our staff are skilled, caring, non-judgmental listeners. We’ll help you understand your feelings and teach you ways to cope that work with your life.

We can never replace the people in your life. But, even with many people around, you may feel alone. You may hesitate to share your grief with others for fear of burdening them. You may find when trying to talk about feelings, others turn away or change the subject, or appear to be uncomfortable. We will help you learn better ways to communicate with your family and friends and meet people who are also experiencing grief.

You may be overwhelmed, realizing that life will never be the same. We help guide you in this difficult period and help you understand what this loss means in your life. We believe while you never really forget, the pain of your grief becomes less intense with time.

Following a death, you may be occupied by the details of the estate. Keeping busy at work, spending time with family or starting a major project, provides a needed distraction from grief. We respect these realities, but know that delaying feelings of grief does not make it go away. Experiencing grief in the way most comfortable for you will help lessen painful emotions.

Grief is usually associated with sadness, depression, lack of energy and wanting to be alone. But, grief can look very different. Some people need to always be with others. Some keep themselves busy and others may have physical symptoms – difficulty sleeping, changes in appetite, fatigue, frequent colds or stomach complaints. Grief may even affect memory. We can help you understand and deal with your unique situation.

Some people fear that needing grief counseling means they are “crazy” or have a mental illness, but grief is natural. People may feel that asking for help with their emotions is a sign of weakness – they should be able to pull themselves together and get on with life. We believe that asking for help is a sign of strength and your commitment to help yourself feel better.

Some people feel more emotional after sessions. As you talk about your grief, feelings come to the surface. Although painful at first, you can work through these feelings and release them. Unexpressed feelings can turn into physical illness, family conflict or work problems.

Many people find sharing their story with others who have “been there” is very positive. It can help you feel less lonely and isolated. People who were hesitant to come to a group often find that strangers (who are also grieving) can quickly become an important source of support and comfort. Group leaders will never require you to share more than you are ready to share.

Yes. We will discuss your concern about other family members with you and can offer grief support to them, but each person must decide whether to accept.

Out-of-town family members may have been very involved in caring for a loved one but must eventually return home. Grief support services can be accessed through hospices in other areas. If you have difficulty finding a local hospice, call Hospice Link at (800) 331-1620 or the National Hospice Organization Help Line at (800) 658-8898.

Our Programs

There's a long list of hospices in Kansas City, but there's only one Kansas City Hospice. Our programs provide comprehensive expert care for all ages at all stages of serious illness.

Hospice

When the focus shifts to comfort instead of treatment, care comes to your home or nursing facility with a plan tailored to your needs, including emotional and spiritual support for the whole family.

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Hospice

Palliative Home Health

When complex needs benefit from a team approach, supportive home care brings the care you need, with 24/7 nurse support for pain, stress and symptoms due to serious illness.

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Palliative Home Health

Advanced Illness Support

Beginning as early as diagnosis and at any stage of serious illness, our nurse practitioners make home visits as needed to help coordinate your care and provide expert pain and symptom management.

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Advanced Illness Support
Hospice House

Hospice House

When symptoms cannot be easily managed at home, two hospice houses provide 24/7 expert care in comfortable home-line settings where family members can be relieved of caregiving duties to focus on loved ones.

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Carousel

Carousel provides palliative and hospice care for perinatal and for babies through young adults with a dedicated team of pediatric nurses, social workers, chaplains and other specialists.

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Solace House

Solace House

Our center for grief and healing supports individuals and families who have been impacted by the death of a loved one, whether anticipated, or sudden and unexpected. We provide opportunities to share, listen, learn and heal with peer group support from age 3 through adult.

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